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8 Signs That Your Girl Is Only Using You

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You are a man. You shouldn’t let yourself get used and abused by a girl who doesn’t really care about who you are as a person. You need to stand up for yourself, put your foot down, and say that enough is enough. You need to develop the courage to actually demand what you deserve from this girl. If she isn’t going to be able to give it to you, then you need to be man enough to just walk away and lick your wounds. You shouldn’t have to waste your time being with a girl who doesn’t think twice about you. There are plenty of ladies out there who are more worthy of your love; ladies who would treat you the way that you would want to be treated in a relationship.

Don’t succumb to the belief that emotional abuse can only victimize women in relationships. There are plenty of cases of men who are being constantly abused and manipulated every day, but they are too afraid to just come out and admit it. And a lot of the time, these men don’t even realized that they are just being played by these cold hearted and manipulative women. These abusive girls are so mean and selfish they always act on their own accord regardless of the effects that their actions can have on other people. Don’t allow yourself to be a mere puppet who can’t see the strings. Make sure that you are able to protect your heart from the harmful abuses of women. You don’t want to end up having your idea of love tarnished and beaten down by one rotten lady.

That is why you need to develop a sense of self-awareness when it comes to relationships. You need to be able to see past your own personal emotions and see things from an objective point of view. Look out for the signs that your girl is merely abusing and using you. When you see that her feelings aren’t so genuine, then it’s time for you to take action. So make sure that you stay vigilant and keep an eye out for a few of these red flags. Here are a few signs that your woman is indeed only using you in the relationship for reasons other than love.

1. She always asks you to buy her material items and she never returns the favor.

She is more interested about the things that she can get out of the relationship than the things that she can put into the relationship. She’s only using you for all of the luxury items and fancy toys that you can put on her lap. She isn’t really interested in any of the emotional aspects of the relationship. She just likes that you’re a walking ATM.

2. She goes the extra mile just to make sure that you don’t have access to her messages.

She doesn’t want you to know how she truly feels about you and so she’s going to hide all the evidence. Chances are she’s already flirting with other men or she’s telling her closest friends about how pathetic you are.

3. She uses you as a driver.

You should just probably apply for a job at Uber at this rate and you can make some money out of it. She doesn’t really like hanging out with you much, but she’s going to want you to driver her around for parties and errands.

4. She talks about other men to you.

She always brings up the topic of other boys like her exes, friends, or workmates. The weird thing is that she shouldn’t be bringing up other men during your conversations so often if she were truly devoted to you in a genuine manner.

5. She rarely ever makes herself available to you unless she needs something.

She always has an excuse whenever you want to ask her out on a date. But whenever she’s the one who needs something from you, she always expects you to come running at full speed; ready to cater to her from head to foot.

6. She never initiates the conversation.

You always have to be the one who makes the effort to establish a connection between the two of you. She never texts first. She rarely ever answers your phone calls. She really isn’t interested in talking to you.

7. Your relationship is more physical than it is emotional.

You do a lot more hook ups than you do dates. Remember that she doesn’t always have to be using you for your time or money. She could also be using you forpleasur

8. She doesn’t even introduce you to her friends or family.

The real way to know that her feelings for you aren’t genuine is when she chooses to hide you from the intimate parts of her life. If she were truly invested in you, she wouldn’t want to be isolating you from her wor ld.

 

 

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Arousal fluid should be swallowed during oral sex – Sex coach advices

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Ghanaian sex coach, Akosua Davies has recommended that arousal fluid, when taken into the mouth during oral sex, should be swallowed and not poured away.

Arousal fluid is the clear, slimy juice that comes out of a woman’s vagina when she is sexually aroused. This is what people usually describe as ‘pussy juice’ or identify as ‘wetness’. This fluid serves as a natural lubricant to allow for easy penetration during sex.

Akosua said, during an interview on eTV Ghana’s Friday night adult show ‘In Bed with Adwen’ that vaginal juice is very good for men, hence the need to take it in. According to her, the vagina is very safe to lick because it is self-cleansing and even cleaner than the mouth.

Akosua queried, “Why is it that we can suck a man’s dick for him to cum and we swallow the semen but you lick a girl’s vagina till she cums and you can’t swallow?”

“God created the vagina such that it cleanses itself unlike the mouth that you wake up in the morning and you have to use brush and toothpaste to clean. We don’t clean it with a sponge or rake or brush. It is self-cleaning,” she said.

The sex coach however advised women that the fact that the vagina cleans itself does not mean if there is an infection, it should be not be treated with the expectation that it will die by itself.

Source: e.TV Ghana

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5 reasons why sleeping naked must be a routine

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Sleeping naked has been proven to be essential in a maintaining good health.

You could be missing out on some serious benefits from sleeping the old fashioned way: buck naked.

But, sleep is vital to being a functional human being and not on the hot mess express. If nighttime nudity gets you one step closer to better shut-eye, why not give it a go?

Here are 5 reasons why getting naked when catching some sleep can benefit you in the bedroom and beyond.

Boost your sex life:

Sleeping naked with your partner will help you boost intimacy thereby improving your sex life. Your significant other will be ready for more even without any touches.

The close contacts between both of you will allow the release of oxytocin, the hormone of love which boosts the chances of spending an unforgettable night together.

Enhances your beauty:

Sleeping naked helps your body release anti-ageing hormones. Wearing too many layers restricts the proper release of hormones like growth hormones, etc.

If these hormones are not released properly throughout the night while you sleep, your hair and skin will not be reconditioned.

Improves genital health:

One of the most compelling reasons to sleep naked is its benefits to the genital part of the body.

Airing out your private areas while you sleep is especially important for women. Wearing underwear traps in moisture allows bacteria to thrive and possibly cause a vaginal infection in women.

Get a healthier skin:

Healthy skin is influenced by getting the right amount of air on your skin. Sleeping naked let your skin get plenty of clean air and it prevents you from meeting dermatologist because of rash, irritation and other skin issues.

Improves your sleep:

The body’s temperature naturally lowers when we sleep. However, it doesn’t happen so when you wear pyjama. Sleeping naked, on the contrary, improve your sleep and your overall health.

People who don’t get high quality sleep each night feel and look unhealthy which can make them live a shorter life. If you want a sound sleep, get into a habit of sleeping naked.

Source: Pulse Ghana

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Six RELATIONSHIP RULES Every Lady In Ghana Should Follow

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SIX RULES FOR YOUR RELATIONSHIP

1. Don’t take off YOUR PANTIES because he called You Beautiful. Take Them off because He MARRIED YOU.

2. Don’t Open Your LEGS because he said You will Make A GOOD MOTHER. Open them because he’s Ready to be A GOOD FATHER AFTER Your Wedding.

3. Don’t Take Him HOME because he Gave You A Ride or Bought You Ice CREAM and fried rice. Take him home because he treated you like a queen and he is Committed to be the Love of YOUR LIFE.

4. Don’t PUSH Him away because He has No MONEY TODAY. Hold Him Close if He is A Man of Vision. To another Woman, He is HONEY and He’s Got BRIGHTER Days ahead with A PROSPECTIVE BLOSSOMING FUTURE.

5. Don’t Go Punishing Him because ANOTHER MAN Hurt You. All Men are not the Same. A Man who FEARS God doesn’t Hurt People. If He Loves You, Give Him a Chance and He may be the best thing that ever Happened to you.

6. Don’t Stay up All Night Praying and Wondering Where to Find a Good Man. Work on YOUR CHARACTER, be an ASSET and not A LIABILITY and above all serve God FAITHFULLY.

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