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Never Try It: 10 Things That Happen In P0rn Which Never Happen In Real Life

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Before you read this article, remember, porn is just an art…an art to providing sexual entertainment to viewers.

Therefore, you need to remember that most of these scenes have been edited and run-through software to look real while in actual fact, they ain’t real.

If you are picking your sexual lessons from porn, you are missing the point completely because what is portrayed in porn is far from reality.

Is porn real?

These are 10 things that happen in porn that never happens in real life

1, Foreplay doesn’t exist

In porn the action starts pretty much straight away, you may get the odd 30 seconds of foreplay here and there but on the whole, it’s completely overlooked.

In real life, it is an absolute must. To quote American Pie: “You’ve got to preheat the oven before you stick in the turkey!”

Not only is foreplay fun, it’s also a key element of a mutually happy and healthy sexual experience.

2, Everyone of the opposite sex is thinking about sex all the time

Porn tends to send a message that everyone you meet is just waiting for an offer and if presented with a sexual scenario won’t be able to help themselves from ripping their clothes off and getting down to it.

This at best can cause misunderstandings between two people, and at worst can lead to coercive and dangerous exploits.

Basically, most people don’t want sex all the time, with whomever and wherever they happen to be.

3, Women love to look

Porn is littered with women all clambering to get a good look at their genitals during intercourse then, upon seeing this splendid sight, orgasming instantly.

In a real-life situation, this just isn’t going to happen.

Men do love a graphic sexual sight and it’s widely known that most men respond to visual stimulation, but for most women, it’s what’s in their head that counts.

4, Everyone of the opposite sex is thinking about sex all the time

Porn tends to send a message that everyone you meet is just waiting for an offer and if presented with a sexual scenario won’t be able to help themselves from ripping their clothes off and getting down to it.

This at best can cause misunderstandings between two people, and at worst can lead to coercive and dangerous exploits.

Basically, most people don’t want sex all the time, with whomever and wherever they happen to be.

5, The more intricate the position the better the sex

Porn tends to depict fantastic sex as an act between two people that involves the most taxing positions, changed as often as you take a breath.

In reality, all this does is halt stimulation, meaning that when you reset you’re starting all over again.

There’s a reason missionary is so popular and that’s because it offers, on the whole, the most contact with the clitoris.

Because this little nub of nerves sits outside of the vagina it’s basically impossible to stimulate through intercourse alone.

6, Orgasm equality is easy

In porn, women can’t move for orgasms. However, recent findings show that in real-world scenarios women tend to climax once, if at all during sex and report that they orgasm far less frequently than their partners.

This is worrying to me as, when surveyed, men didn’t seem to think this was a problem and cited that their partner climaxed just as much as they did – if not more.

The bottom line is that it’s always best, to be honest in bed, women, so if you’re not there yet don’t pretend you are.

And men, don’t just assume that ten minutes of attention will equate to several explosive orgasms.

7, External ejaculation is a must

Porn nearly always shows men climaxing and ‘shooting their load’ all over their partner’s face, bum, boobs or any other place they can easily reach.

This is fine if both partners have agreed to it.

However, in real life, it’s pretty unlikely someone is going to be OK with, let alone beg for you to, ejaculate on their face. If they haven’t expressly asked for it to happen don’t assume it’s OK.

8, ATM is OK

ATM or “ass to mouth” is a really common trend in porn.

This is where someone who has just engaged in anal intercourse then proceeds directly to fellatio – or to you and me, the common b*** j**.

This is possibly the worst practice depicted in porn, not only because quite frankly it’s pretty disrespectful but because it is so completely unhygienic and foul that if you were to do this in real life you’d be exposing your partner to all sorts of health risks.

9, Everyone loves anal!

Not only that all women love it, but that we can accommodate anything up there with no lubrication or thought for our own pleasure.

Reality check, the anus isn’t self-lubricating and nor does it engorge during arousal like the vagina. If you want to try anal play, invest in an anal training kit and make sure you get plenty of water-based anal lubricant to accompany it.

It’s also best to cleanse before, so anal douching is also a must.

Remember, the women in porn have been thoroughly prepped before they shoot their scenes.

10, They’re just acting, it ain’t real

The actresses in porn films are just that, actresses.

It’s their job to have a good time on camera, even if they’re not. If you go away for one minute thinking that they have sex like that in real life then you need to think again.

In a nutshell, porn is a form of entertainment and, as such, should be viewed lightly and definitely not as an instructional guide.

Porn is about as relevant to sex as Star Wars is to space.

If you remember that porn has actors, actresses, makeup artists, directors and cameramen just like any movie then you’ll see it for what it is, complete fiction.

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Four reasons why every man must help his woman to an orgasm

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The pleasure orgasm can cause can encourage females to have sex.

This may also promote bonding with a sexual partner, which does have significant evolutionary benefits.

But orgasms are pleasurable, and pleasure can be its own benefit. Pleasurable sex may improve a person’s mood, relieve stress, boost immunity, and foster better relationships.

Women do not need to orgasm to get pregnant. However, a limited body of evidence suggests that orgasms may boost fertility.

While it’s less comfortable for a woman to achieve an orgasm during sex than it is for a man to climax, it’s still possible. The woman can learn techniques to ensure she is receptive to having an orgasm, while her man can learn how to make sure her experience is all that she hopes for.

Apart from the immediate pleasure of a sexual climax and her joy for that, here’s a list of reasons why you should always try to make your woman orgasm every time you have sex.

  • You are the man

Facilitating her orgasms will help you keep her, and also decrease the risk of infidelity. You will no longer have to worry about the overly flirty male charmer in your friends’ circle. You are her rock star.

  • She will appreciate you for it

Women who have more frequent orgasms are more likely to rate their partners as more creative, as having a good sense of humour, and as high in self-confidence.

  • Make her more forgiving

Because of the surge of oxytocin, the ‘love hormone released during the ‘O’, she will not only bond with you better but also empathise more, that is, ‘understand your point of view better. This newfound understanding could go a long way in forgiving your drunken escapades.

  • Leave her wanting more

And most importantly she will not think of 101 excuses the next time you initiate sex.

SOURCE:Pulse Ghana

 

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